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More people are abandoning in-store buying for online shopping at home in their pajamas. Online shopping sales account for 40% of holiday purchases, according to consumer credit reporting company Experian.
But the convenience of buying gifts digitally comes with an increased risk of exposing personal information.
Online scams and phishing attempts spike during busy shopping times, like the holidays. As cybercriminals grow more sophisticated, consumers need to be vigilant about online shopping safety.
One way AAA members can safeguard themselves from cybercriminals is by signing up for identify theft protection through the ProtectMyID program, operated by Experian. The basic membership is free, and services include credit monitoring and fraud resolution support. Additional protections are available through higher level, paid memberships that include Social Security number monitoring, real-time identity alerts and child identity monitoring.
Browse and buy securely this holiday season. Make sure all the shoppers in your home know these basic cybersafety measures.
With just a few precautions, you can shop online safely and be ready when the avalanche of packages hits your doorstep.
Are you protected from porch pirates? Find out.
There aren’t many things cooler than a castle. Besides the lore they’re sure to have in spades, castles are architectural marvels that represent a time in history we get to experience firsthand. Plus, it’s always just fun to imagine living in one.
When you think of a castle, your mind might automatically picture an old ruin in Europe. But luckily for us, we have castles of our own right here in the Northeast, no passport required.
Although it now lies in ruins, Hearthstone Castle (once Sanford Castle) was built in 1895 as a honeymoon cottage for Elias Starr Sanford and his wife, Emma. It boasted three stories and 16 rooms with woodwork imported from Italy and silver-plated chandeliers dotting elaborate ceilings. After five years and a revelation from Mrs. Sanford that she actually disliked the castle, it was sold to retired New York industrialist Victor Buck. In 1918, the castle was sold again. The new owner, Charles Darling Parks, renamed it Hearthstone.
Today the castle sits within Tarrywile Park. Visitors are allowed to view the ruins of Hearthstone Castle but, due to safety concerns, may not traverse beyond its surrounding fence.
The history of Gillette Castle reads somewhat like a mad lib.
Built by William Gillette, an actor who famously portrayed Sherlock Holmes on Broadway, the medieval-style castle sits on a 184-acre estate, which includes a private railway system that Gillette used to get around. Upon its completion in 1919, many elements of the castle portrayed Gillette’s eclectic tastes, from the wooden light switches to the numerous secret passageways. In his will, Gillette proclaimed that the property shall never fall into the hands, “of some blithering saphead who has no conception of where he is or with what surrounded.”
Thankfully, his words were heeded, and the estate was purchased by the State of Connecticut and made into a park that visitors can enjoy (and appreciate, per Gillette’s wishes). Tickets for a self-guided tour of the castle are available. Dates vary.
Most castles start out as private homes and eventually turn into museums. Hammond Castle was always meant to be a museum.
John Hays Hammond Jr., a renowned inventor in his time, decided to enshrine his legacy in a castle that showcased old world Europe without having to leave the country. Antiquities from artwork to books line the many rooms of the castle, many of which Hammond salvaged and brought back after World War I. Today, Hammond Castle Museum is a STEAM organization (Science, Technology, Engineering, Art and Mathematics), prioritizing exhibits that foster a curiosity about science and engineering — something Hammond would have wholeheartedly approved.
Tours of Hammond Castle Museum are available daily, all year round. Reservations are strongly encouraged.
Winnekenni, an Algonquian term meaning very beautiful, lives up to such a name. Situated on a hill overlooking Kenoza Lake, the castle was built in 1875 by Dr. James R. Nichols, after a trip to England and Scotland inspired his vision. The castle is constructed of native boulders and rocks and took only two years to complete. Inside, it had a Grecian drawing room, Pompeian-style dining room, a black-walnut finished library, nine bedrooms and more.
Eventually, Nichols sold the property to his cousin who used it as a summer home for 10 years until selling it and the surrounding land to the City of Haverhill. A fire in 1969 destroyed the elaborate interior of the castle. Today, only the exterior of the castle remains. However, you can visit Winnekenni Park to explore its 700 acres of forests, meadows and 9 miles of trails.
Resting majestically on the ridge of First Mountain and spanning a whopping 9,000 square feet, Kip’s Castle is a medieval Norman-style structure originally known as Kypsburg, after the folks who brought it to life. From 1902 to 1905, Frederic Ellsworth Kip and his wife, Charlotte Bishop Williams Kip, designed and built the castle and grounds — most notably, the octagonal rose garden that enveloped the southwest corner of the property. Thirty rooms of varying design made up the interior, with everything from high vaulted ceilings to massive fireplaces.
Nowadays, the castle and its land are known as Kip’s Castle Park, which is open daily from dawn until dusk. The castle’s interior will be open to the public for touring in December 2025. Entry is free.
About 3 miles into the Ramapo Mountain State Forest lie the ruins of Van Slyke Castle, deserted and overgrown. Burned by vandals in the 1950s, after being abandoned, the castle was once the stately home of stockbroker William Porter and his wife, Ruth. Tragedy struck in 1911, when Porter’s vehicle nearly collided with a horse-drawn wagon, sending his vehicle careening into a ditch. He did not survive his injuries. Porter’s wife later married Warren Van Slyke, and together, they renamed the castle. After Ruth’s death in 1940, the castle was bought and sold numerous times, ultimately fell into disrepair and was abandoned for reasons unknown.
The curious and adventure-seeking can (carefully) explore the castle remains as well as its water tower and nearby pool.
Even a castle can live many lives. Bannerman Castle began as a fortress to house surplus military antiques in 1901. Then it became a summer residence for owners Frank and Helen Bannerman and their family. In 1969, the castle was mostly lost in a devastating fire. The great facade of the castle remains to welcome visitors to the island that it sits so proudly on.
Many legends surround the castle — true or not, who’s to say? One recalls the tale of a girl named Polly Pell who was rescued from the treacherous river ice by a handsome stranger, who she promptly married. The island was then named Pollepel in her honor. Other stories tell of ghostly apparitions, like the Heer (King) of Dunderberg, a goblin-like creature who controlled thunder and lightening to sink ships into the Hudson River. The castle’s lodge is also said to be haunted by an old sea captain.
Whether you’re lured by its lore or just want to see the castle in all its glory, tickets to tour Bannerman Castle are available but must be purchased in advance. Ticketed tours and events include a cruise and walking tour, a butterfly day tour, a kayak tour, movie nights and even a farm-to-table dinner.
Boldt Castle was built as a love letter from millionaire George C. Boldt, owner of the Waldorf Astoria Hotel in New York City, to his wife, Louise.
Development of the 120-room castle began in 1900 and included tunnels, a drawbridge, tower, Italian gardens and more. In 1904, work on the castle was put to a permanent halt: Louise had suddenly passed. Not willing to see it through without his beloved, George abandoned the project and never went back to the castle.
For 73 years, the castle stood unfinished and at the mercy of the elements. Finally, the Thousand Islands Bridge Authority acquired the property in 1977 and dedicated several million dollars to restoring it to its intended grandeur. Today visitors can ferry to the island and tour the castle on select dates May through October.
As the second-largest private residence ever built in the United States, Oheka Castle is humongous. The 109,000-square-foot estate wasn’t even a full-time residence — just a summer home where financier and philanthropist Otto Hermann Kahn would hold lavish parties for European royalty and Hollywood stars.
After his passing in 1934, the estate served as a retreat for New York sanitation workers, a government training school, a military academy and then, ultimately, stood abandoned. It wasn’t until 1984, when developer Gary Melius purchased the castle and its surrounding acres, that the slow process of restoration began. And $40 million later, Oheka Castle is back in business, in more ways than one.
Now a prestigious hotel, wedding venue, event space and even a Hollywood star itself (spot it in “Citizen Cane” or “Succession”), Oheka Castle can also be enjoyed via guided group tours Monday through Thursday.
Featured image: Oheka Castle
Sixty years ago,
Now hundreds of thousands of children across the country walk on Nov. 14, Ruby Bridges Walk to School Day, to honor Bridges’ courage and resilience.
“This is an important part of history, and it’s important for us to remember it as a community,” said Katy Smith, a PTA volunteer at Meadow Elementary School in Baldwin, N.Y., after the school’s first Ruby Bridges walk. Smith’s daughter, Londyn, who is in kindergarten, was excited about the event, Smith added. “I read a book (about Ruby Bridges) to her, and I explained segregation to her. She was very happy to walk and wore purple.”
Purple is reportedly Bridges’ favorite color.
“This is to support diversity and cultural awareness, and it brings the school community together,” said Helen Suh Singson, vice president of programs for the PTA. “It’s a significant day in history. We wanted children to know about it.”
The impetus for Ruby Bridges Walk to School Day came in 2018 from fifth graders in the AAA Safety Patrol at Martin Elementary School in San Francisco. They were moved by Ruby Bridges’ story and approached the California state legislature, which passed a bill in 2021 proclaiming Nov. 14 Ruby Bridges Walk to School Day.
AAA partnered with the Ruby Bridges Foundation in 2022, and the event’s popularity continues to grow. More than 700,000 people from across the U.S. and in three international locations participated in 2024.
At Meadow School, about 75 students, parents, teachers and community members came together and walked about four blocks to the school, many dressed in purple and waving banners.
“Through the Ruby Bridges Walk, we are promoting unity and diversity,” said PTA Vice President for Health and Safety Susan Geevarghese. “Our theme this year is ‘Stronger Together: Building Community One Connection at a Time.’ Coming together for this walk is a powerful example for the world that we must love our neighbor and promote kindness.”
After the walk, AAA Northeast Outreach Specialist Aisha Darby spoke to the school’s fourth and fifth graders. She showed a video about Bridges’ life and explained that views about other races when Bridges was little were much different than today. She told them to look around the room at all the students from different cultures.
“Just imagine if you couldn’t sit with your friends because you are different,” Darby said.
Implicit in lessons about Bridges was the idea that everyone can have an impact.
“Ruby Bridges wants you to think about that, as young as you are, you can make a difference,” Darby said. “Can you be an agent for change?”
Meadow Principal Yolanda Martin also said that it is critical message. “It’s important to connect students to the value of history and realize how one student can make a difference,” Martin said. “We have a very diverse community, and this promotes our own values and shows that children have a voice. And this promotes advocacy — Ruby Bridges defied the odds and took a stand. This shows what all people can do.”
Featured image: From left, Kenya Darling-Adepoju, PTA event co-chairperson; Katy Smith, PTA volunteer; Maria Jimisalami, PTA event co-chairperson; Helen Singson, vice president, programs, for Meadow Elementary School, Baldwin, N.Y.
Sign up your school for the next Ruby Bridges Walk to School Day.
There’s nothing better than kicking off the season with a visit to a holiday market — or two!
These festive European-inspired events have become a seasonal tradition in cities across the country. From artisan-made treasures and treats to activities like ice skating and sipping on hot cocoa, you can stroll the stalls of local makers while taking in all the twinkling lights.
Whether you’re looking for indoor browsing or outdoor adventure, we’ve listed some of our favorite Northeast holiday markets here. Find what you’re looking for and get into the holiday spirit with handmade gifts and holiday cheer!
Experience the holiday spirit at the Guilford Holiday Fest. This event is held at the Guilford Art Center, a charming spot for winter festivities where local vendors set up shop to sell crafts, food and unique gifts. The festival features live music, performances and activities for all ages. Find handmade ornaments, cozy winter wear and other holiday treasures as you sip hot cocoa and nibble on holiday treats.
For one magical night, Stonington’s annual Holiday Stroll transforms the town into a winter wonderland, attracting visitors from all over Connecticut. Wander down Water Street and find an array of charming stalls filled with handcrafted jewelry, festive decorations and homemade treats. The Stonington market is a must-visit holiday event where you can cozy up to the small-town charm.
Snowport transforms Boston’s Seaport into a winter wonderland filled with outdoor shopping, tasty treats, warm drinks and more. The outdoor market features more than 125 small businesses, and shoppers can find a range of holiday gifts, including art, clothing, jewelry, home decor, gourmet treats and handmade goods. After shopping, you can check out the outdoor dining area, brimming with comfort food.
Stop by the Kilroy Square Holiday Market for some holiday cheer under a big tent. This festive holiday shopping experience in downtown Quincy, spanning two weekends, features more than 30 local vendors, delicious hot and cold cocktails, a beer garden and more. Outside the tent, you’ll find a rotation of food trucks under outdoor heaters, along with Christmas trees and wreaths for sale.
Discover the magic of a German Weihnachtsmarkt paired with the local makers of Asbury Park. Experience live music, tasty treats, handmade gifts and plenty of holiday spirit at two different locations. Head to the website for each address.
For an outdoor holiday market adventure packed with local crafters and artists, visit the Highland Park Owl Holiday Market. Open weekends through mid December, you won’t want to miss this cheery maker-market filled with food, trees for sale, a gingerbread house contest, live music and caroling. You may even catch Santa!
For a unique holiday experience, visit Holland Ridge Farms! Pick your own winter tulips as you stroll through the stunning grounds. The wonderland boasts over 50,000 light-up tulips, food trucks, vendors, music, firepits and even a drone show on select nights. Meet Santa in his workshop on weekends and select weekdays leading up to Christmas.
As one of NYC’s oldest local markets, Grand Bazaar goes all out for the holiday season with a large variety of vendors and gifts. Packed with photography, jewelry, furniture, beauty products, antiques and tasty eats, this market supports local businesses by donating 100% of its profits to four of the neighborhood’s public schools.
For the second year, Urbanspace has teamed up with Macy’s Herald Square for a festive holiday market across two unique locations. Explore more than 30 vendors on the lower level of the iconic Macy’s Herald Square flagship store, open daily through Dec. 30. Keep the holiday spirit going at the open-air market in Herald Square Plaza on Broadway between 32nd and 36th Streets, open from Dec. 3 through Jan. 3.
Don’t miss one of NYC’s most lively holiday markets, filled with ice skating, rink-side dining, artisan provisions and unique gifts from around the world.
This gallery turned holiday market features affordable artwork and artisanal gifts perfect for the holiday season. Find stocking stuffers, ornaments, jewelry, whimsies, wearable art, pottery and holiday cards. The schedule varies, so we recommend checking the website for specific hours.
You’ll have to visit this market more than once to check out the rotation of about 80 vendors! You can shop for everything from ornaments and wreaths to vintage vinyl and candles. Sip craft cocktails and beer and enjoy the fresh dishes served by onsite food trucks. Parking and admission are free.
For savings on holiday gifts, visit AAA.com/Discounts.
What is your favorite holiday market? Tell us in the comments.
This article has been updated and republished from a previous version.

Depending on your perspective, the holiday season is either the most joyous time of the year or the most stressful. If you are apprehensive that the holidays are right around the corner, it likely has something to do with the amount of money you will end up spending in the coming months.
2025 is projected to be a record year for holiday shopping. An estimated 187 million people are expected to shop between Thanksgiving through Cyber Monday alone, according to the National Retail Federation. Overall holiday sales are expected to increase between 3.7% and 4.2% from 2024 and surpass $1 trillion.
With consumers planning to budget an average of $890 for gifts and other seasonal items, it’s no wonder many develop a higher sense of anxiety when the wish lists start to roll in.
The good news is there are still ways you can soften the impact of holiday spending on your household’s bottom line.
Here are a few smart ways to help you keep your budget under control.
If you plan to go all out on holiday shopping, one way to offset the expense is to factor it into your savings throughout the year. By saving a little each month, you could wind up with several hundred dollars in accessible cash by the time shopping season comes around. As a general guideline, look at what you spent last year and calculate your monthly savings goal. This way, you won’t have to scrounge up all that gift money in the last quarter of the year.
When most people plan their holiday expenses, so much emphasis tends to be put on gifts that they forget about everything else. But decorations, travel, charitable donations and other traditional expenses add up quickly. So, as you’re building your budget for this year’s holiday spending, don’t neglect to take a big-picture view of everything you’re looking to purchase to make the holidays special. Otherwise, you might find yourself coming up short when the time comes.
Once you know what you want to buy for the holidays — again, gifts and all — then you can decide how much money you’re truly willing to spend to cover all the expenses. Come up with the maximum amount that you can justify spending on the holidays, preferably leaning on your holiday savings or other extra money for most of it. If you don’t have a cap on your holiday expenses, you run the very real risk of overspending.

From this point, you can determine how much of your master holiday budget you can devote to each specific category. Prioritize your expenses, devoting money first to the ones you cannot go without, and then adjust as you go along. Sure, you might wind up having to tighten the amount you spend on each gift or even forgo certain less important purchases, such as buying gifts for distant relatives or picking up extra decorations. But in the end, you’ll be thankful that you have specified a concrete way to stay firmly within your overall spending limit.
We know all too well the dangers of impulse purchases. You see something in the store and, on a whim, decide to buy it. However, such a decision completely contradicts the methodical use of a holiday budget. Before you even head into the store or begin shopping online, have a sense of what you want to buy. Knowing how much you want to spend on each person makes it easier to decide what to buy. Consider making a list. Build extra gift purchases into your budget just in case you need them.
The retail business often depends on holiday spending to maximize its profits. To that end, the season is brimming with promising sales, most notably the period between Black Friday and Cyber Monday, which seems to get longer every year. Thanksgiving weekend sees discounts and doorbusters that you simply cannot find any other time of year. Take advantage of these deals to get more without exceeding your spending limits and get a lot of your shopping done in one fell swoop. Even when you’re not shopping the sales, do your research and get the best price.
Check out AAA Discounts to search for the best holiday gifts this year.
Taking the time to decide on a detailed budget only works if you keep a close eye on your progress. Have your shopping list with you every time you head out and adjust your remaining total accordingly as you do so. If you do overspend, just make the necessary adjustments to the remaining total. If you do a significant portion of your shopping in person, you could also opt to make your purchases only with cash, as this prevents the urge to spend more than what you originally intended.
If you apply the above strategies to your holiday spending, you’re certain to find ways to stretch out your budget without severely curtailing the generous spirit that has become so synonymous with the holidays. Too often, shoppers get swept up in all the pressures of the retail game that they wind up overspending and paying the price for it in the subsequent months. Hopefully, this won’t be you. Not this year.

It’s that time of year again! Once you’ve made your gift list, be sure to check it twice for savings.
Find the best gifts at even better prices with these AAA holiday discounts.
The holidays are all about baked goods. And what could be better than an indulgent breakfast, brunch or dessert from Wolferman’s? Since 1888, Wolferman’s has remained a proud purveyor of gourmet breads and pastries. Try their delicious English muffin sampler, their deluxe ham brunch banquet, their orange cream bundt cake and more.
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Spruce up your holiday decor with a bouquet from 1-800-Flowers.com, or gift some holiday flowers to your friends and family. Check out their holiday centerpieces, sleighs filled with flowers, holiday wreaths, poinsettias and more. You can even get bouquets shaped like little Christmas trees.
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If you’re looking for new tech this holiday season, HP has a wide selection of choices. Whether you’re getting it as a gift or upgrading yourself, it’s the perfect time of year to get a new computer. Look into HP’s Elite laptops and desktops for business-ready performance. If you’re looking for something a little more lightweight and flexible, check out something like an HP Pavilion. For everyday use, an Envy laptop is a great choice for casual PC users.
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The weather outside may be frightful, but your house should always be comfy and cozy. Make sure your home temperature stays just the way you like it with Petro Home Services, your one-stop shop for heating, cooling and plumbing needs. New customers get $150 in free heating oil and a rebate on annual oil usage.
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Sometimes the best gift is the gift of a new experience. It’s also a great opportunity to spend some quality time together with your loved ones. AAA members can get savings and special offers at concerts, theme parks, virtual events, museums, attractions and more!
Get exclusive tickets and savings.
Do you want to send your gift through the mail? AAA members can get 5% off shipping and 20% off packing services at the UPS store. As a bonus, you also get up to 15% off new mailbox services, in-store printing and in-store copying.
Whether you’re shopping for someone who has it all or someone who just appreciates a personal touch, Personalization Mall is the perfect place to find a one-of-a-kind gift. Everything on Personalization Mall can be customized with the giftee’s name, family name or even nickname. Some even have options for including a personal photo. You can get almost any kind of gift, like stuffed animals, kitchenware, wall art, blankets, jewelry boxes, the jewelry that goes in those boxes and so much more.
AAA members can save 25% when shopping online.
The new year is coming faster than you expected, and it’s time to get your resolutions in order. If you’re trying to get in shape, Active&Fit can help you save on gym memberships and online fitness classes. Have a fitness fanatic in your life? An Active&Fit membership might be the perfect gift.
AAA members can join for just $28 a month with the Active&Fit Direct program.
You can get premium gadgets and appliances without breaking the bank by utilizing Samsung’s special discount for AAA members. At the exclusive online store for AAA members, your discount will automatically be applied as you shop, and you’ll be able to see all your deals in one place. You’ll also get access to limited-time offers on phones, TVs, computers and home appliances.
Are all your family photos trapped on your phone? Shutterfly can help you turn your pictures into keepsakes like photo books, prints, wall art, calendars, notecards and more. It’s an easy way to make sure you can hang onto your most treasured memories.
Pass on the tradition of world-class roadside assistance and exclusive discounts and services with a AAA membership. You can get 50% off on new primary memberships, plus two free associate memberships through the end of 2025.
Do you know someone who is learning to drive, or wants to get behind the wheel for the first time? Give the gift of safe driving with AAA Driver Training School, available in Massachusetts and Rhode Island. You can purchase driver education classes or hands-on, behind-the-wheel training to get your loved one driving confidently in no time. Plus, the lessons in driving safety will be a gift that keeps on giving. Already have a license? Look into our Driver Improvement Courses.
Search AAA Discounts for more gift ideas. Happy holidays!
This article has been updated and republished from a previous version.
There are certain experiences everyone can relate to, and the hassle of removing your car’s registration sticker is one of them. These seemingly feeble stickers are designed to stay firmly attached to your car for a year or more, so getting them off your windshield or license plate is not always the easiest task. And once you’ve removed the old sticker, you’ll need to place a new one in the correct location.
Just like every other task, there are easier and more efficient ways of accomplishing this chore. Here are a few tips on how to remove a registration sticker and how to affix a new vehicle registration to make the process a little smoother.
As troublesome as they may be, registration stickers are part of an important system of cataloging every car on the road. This lets authorities know the vehicle’s rightful owner.
By law, every automobile must be registered with a state’s department of motor vehicles. Otherwise, the car is not allowed on public roads. Failure to register your car could lead to fines or having your vehicle impounded.
You’ll need a new vehicle registration any time you buy or lease a new car, move to a new state or when your current registration expires. Each state dictates the length of vehicle registrations, but they generally need to be renewed every year or two.
Unsure about the vehicle registration laws in your state? Click here to learn more.
Registration stickers are designed to stay in place for a lengthy period of time, so removing them can require some elbow grease. At the same time, you want to be careful not to scratch or damage your windshield or license plate.
Did you know that you can renew your registration at select AAA branches? Find out which DMV/RMV services are available in your state.
Placing a replacement registration sticker on your car isn’t quite as burdensome as removing one. There are, however, a few important details to keep in mind.
Learn about DMV services available at a AAA branch near you.
Do you have any tricks for dealing with registration stickers? Let us know in the comments below.
This article has been updated and republished from a previous version.
Your Christmas tree is a towering, twinkling masterpiece, the decorations in your yard are so big and bright they are likely visible from space, but your inner elf tells you something is missing. Then, you look at the four-wheeled, blank canvas in your driveway — and another light bulb goes off in your head.
Well, hang onto those twinkle lights and decorations for just a minute. While decorating cars with lights has become a social media trend over the past few holiday seasons, festooning every inch of your car can be a safety risk.
Technically, decorating your car with Christmas lights is not against the law, notes Car and Driver. You can light up your car like Clark Griswold and keep it parked in the driveway, but driving with them lit goes against most state and federal safety regulations. In many places, including states throughout the Northeast, your cheerful display could get you pulled over and fined.
Lights are considered a distraction. They could impair a driver’s vision. And there is a risk that drivers might confuse a lighted car with an emergency vehicle, especially when flashing. Another drawback is that using adhesives to attach lights to your car could damage the paint.
Wyoming State Police posted this photo of a very festive, well-lighted car pulled over on the side of the road last year with a reminder that the practice is illegal.
Don’t let light bans dim your holiday spirit! Exceptions to the rules are sometimes made for events like a holiday car parade. And there are still plenty of totally legal ways to make your ride look festive.
Potential decorations include the popular reindeer antlers and red Rudolph nose, a wreath on the front end, magnets, press-on stickers, securely fastened garland, holiday car mats and air fresheners and dashboard decorations. Just ensure everything is securely fastened and does not block your view.
“The key is to make sure that you have complete visibility in all directions when you drive,” said Alec Slatky, managing director of public and government affairs for AAA Northeast. “Not only out of the front windshield, but the side windows and the rear windshield. Anything that obstructs your vision is not advised.”
Happy holidays and happy decorating!
Today, an average traveler may never need to know an airport code. Your airline, destination and departure time are often all you need to find your gate and flight status. Although, it’s best to know your flight number too.
You may be at least subliminally aware of the three letters that accompany your flight information on your tickets, boarding passes, luggage tags and the airport’s arrival-departure board.
If you’re headed to Boston, it’s no big deal. The code BOS is straightforward. But if you’re going to Chicago, you may need to know whether you’re landing at Midway (MDW) or O’Hare (ORD). If it’s the latter, you might also find yourself wondering: Why ORD?
It’s a question many of us have pondered at some point. Thankfully, we’ve never mistaken the Windy City in March for sunny Orlando, Florida, airport code MCO. Or have we? The codes for O’Hare and Orlando are perhaps the most puzzlingly familiar. But with hundreds of airports across the U.S., each with its own unique code, they’re not alone.
The codes air passengers most often see are from the International Air Transport Association (IATA), which established the three-letter system for commercial airlines starting in the 1960s. Airports may be assigned different codes by the Federal Aviation Administration (FAA) and the International Civil Aviation Organization (ICAO). Airports can request specific codes, but they’re not always granted.
There’s no decoder ring, all we can do is follow a few rules and some clues.
Some airports that predate the IATA codes had well-established two-letter codes that were incorporated into their three-letter identifiers. Or an IATA code may correspond to an airport’s previous name. IATA codes are permanent. Just imagine how disruptive changing airport codes could be. Here are some examples.
The U.S. Navy reserves codes beginning with the letter N. K and W are also reserved for U.S. radio call letters. That’s why these airports have peculiar codes.
An X at the end of an IATA airport code could be an extension of an existing two-letter code, as in:
But sometimes an X has greater meaning.
Now that we know a little about airport codes, let’s make a list of those you’re most likely to see. In 2024, these were the 20 busiest airports by passengers, according to the FAA.
Are you ready to put your newfound knowledge to the test? Try our Decipher the Airport Code word search.
What’s your local airport code, and does it have special meaning? Tell us in the comments.
The holidays are a time for parties and celebrations with family and friends. But as the drinks start flowing, the roads get more dangerous.
Drunk driving accounts for about 30% of all roadway deaths across the U.S., according to the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration, and fatalities and injuries trend upward from Thanksgiving to New Year’s Day.
Keep the season bright by ensuring your loved ones don’t get behind the wheel if they have consumed alcohol — be a designated driver.
Inspired by one mother’s tragedy, Mothers Against Drunk Driving (MADD) introduced the concept of designating a sober driver in 1986. Together with the Tori Lynn Andreozzi Foundation in Rhode Island, MADD has provided a list of reasons why one responsible choice can make the holidays safer for everyone.
AAA and MADD encourage everyone to celebrate responsibly this holiday season and always.
Sideswipe accidents are common. All it takes is a momentary lapse in concentration or the slightest maneuver in the wrong direction for two cars to make contact. And though you may brush off getting sideswiped as a minor inconvenience, they can also be the catalyst to a more serious collision.
As the name implies, a sideswipe collision occurs when the sides of two vehicles make impact. This can happen as the two vehicles are traveling in the same direction or when they are traveling in opposite directions.
Sideswipes commonly occur when one vehicle starts moving into the other vehicle’s lane. This can be caused by a number of different reasons including distracted, reckless, drowsy or drunk driving; drivers changing lanes without checking their blind spots; multiple drivers merging into the same lane at the same time; and skidding or hydroplaning on slippery roads.
A sideswipe collision could also occur with a parked car, if a driver gets too close to the side of the road and makes contact with a stationary or idle vehicle.
This might seem like a minor accident that would leave little car damage and few serious injuries, but if you have ever been sideswiped you know that is not always the case. While the initial contact may not be major, the impact of one car hitting another can be enough for either driver to lose control of their vehicle. It is common for motorists to over-steer to try to regain control, which leads to swerving. Swerving can cause the driver to crash into other objects like guardrails, trees, light posts and other vehicles. Losing control of your car and swerving can also lead to rollover crashes.
If you get sideswiped, you should treat it the same way you treat any other automobile crash. First, check to make sure all parties are uninjured. If medical assistance is needed, call 911 immediately. If your car is drivable, move it off the road to a safe place and put on your hazard lights. Call the police and file a report. Exchange information with the other driver including name, address, vehicle information, license plate numbers, driver’s license numbers and insurance carrier information. You may also want to take photos of the car and location should you need them for later.
In the case of a sideswipe hit-and-run while you are in your vehicle, do not engage with the party that took off. Instead, safely pull over and gather as much information as you can such as color, make, model, and plate number of the vehicle before calling the police to file a report. If you are parked and come back to find your vehicle damaged, you can contact the local police department to have an incident report recorded even without the information of the other vehicle. Be sure to note the date and time.
The damage caused by a sideswipe collision depends on several factors, such as the size of the vehicles and the speed at which they were traveling. Generally, sideswipe damage includes dented driver- or passenger-side doors, scraped quarter panels and lost or damaged sideview mirrors. Of course, if the sideswipe led to a head-on collision or another type of crash, the damage would be much more significant.

Following the crash, call your insurance provider as soon as possible. They will ask a series of questions regarding your crash. Provide them with as many details of the incident as you can, including a walk-through of the events, as well as the date, time, parties involved and any injuries you incurred.
Your insurance carrier will investigate to determine the nature of the crash, the severity of the damage and liability. They will take into account all of the information available including the police report as well as any photos or video. If there are differences between the two parties’ accounts, you may receive a call from the other driver’s insurance company.
If you are not at fault, the at-fault driver’s liability insurance should cover your car damage and any medical costs. Almost all states require some sort of liability insurance.
This article has been updated and republished from a previous version.
AAA projects 81.8 million people will travel at least 50 miles from home over the Thanksgiving holiday period, from Tuesday, Nov. 25 to Monday, Dec.1. This year’s domestic travel forecast includes an additional 1.6 million travelers compared to last Thanksgiving, setting a new overall record.
“Thanksgiving is the single busiest holiday for travel and has become synonymous with heading out of town to spend time with loved ones,” said Jillian Young, director of public relations for AAA Northeast. “It doesn’t come as a surprise that people are willing to brave the crowds and make last-minute adjustments to their plans, if needed.”

AAA projects at least 73 million people — nearly 90% of Thanksgiving travelers — will travel by car. That figure is an increase of 1.3 million travelers compared to last Thanksgiving. It could be higher if people who want to avoid airports on the heels of recent flight cancellations decide to drive.
For travelers who are renting cars, AAA car rental partner Hertz says Wednesday, Nov. 26, is expected to be the busiest pick-up day. AAA booking data shows that domestic car rentals are 15% cheaper than last year.
At the pump, drivers are paying about the same as last year. Filling the tank the night before a road trip is a good idea, since it’s one less thing to worry about on travel day. AAA also recommends checking your battery and tire pressure. AAA responded to nearly 600,000 emergency roadside assistance calls last Thanksgiving period to help drivers with issues like dead batteries, flat tires and empty fuel tanks.
As travelers prepare to get behind the wheel, AAA and Mothers Against Drunk Driving (MADD) remind drivers about the dangers of impaired driving. Drunk driving contributed to 868 fatalities during the Thanksgiving holiday period from 2019 to 2023, according to the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA). Have a plan in place before Thanksgiving and use a rideshare, designate a sober driver or take public transit to ensure everyone’s safety.
Over the Thanksgiving holiday period, 6 million U.S. travelers are expected to take domestic flights, a 2% increase from 2024.
Travel by other modes — including bus, train and cruise — is expected to increase by 8.5% to nearly 2.5 million people. Buses and trains could see an uptick in last-minute bookings this year.
The top holiday destinations listed below are based on AAA booking data for the Thanksgiving travel period.
| DOMESTIC | INTERNATIONAL |
| Orlando | Paris, France |
| Fort Lauderdale | Amsterdam, Netherlands |
| Miami | Vienna, Austria |
| Los Angeles/Anaheim | Cancun, Mexico |
| Tampa | Punta Cana, Dominican Republic |
| New York City | Basel, Switzerland |
| San Francisco | Sydney, Australia |
| Honolulu | Barcelona, Spain |
| Las Vegas | Budapest, Hungary |
| Atlanta | Oranjestad, Aruba |
Tuesday and Wednesday afternoon are expected to be the most congested periods before Thanksgiving Day, according to INRIX, a provider of transportation data and insights. Travelers returning home on Sunday should expect heavy traffic most of the day. Drivers should hit the road in the morning to avoid the worst backups, but keep in mind that construction, crashes or inclement weather could impact travel times. Slow Down, Move Over for emergency responders and other stopped vehicles on the side of the road to ensure everyone’s safety.
| Best and Worst Times to Drive | ||
| Date | Worst Travel Time | Best Travel Time |
| Tuesday, Nov. 25 | Noon-9 p.m. | Before noon |
| Wednesday, Nov. 26 | 11 a.m.-8 p.m. | Before 11 a.m. |
| Thursday, Nov. 27 | Minimal Traffic Impact Expected | |
| Friday, Nov. 28 | 1-7 p.m. | Before 11 a.m. |
| Saturday, Nov. 29 | 1-8 p.m. | Before 10 a.m. |
| Sunday, Nov. 30 | 11 a.m.-8 p.m. | Before 11 a.m. |
| Monday, Dec. 1 | Noon-8 p.m. | After 8 p.m. |
SEASON 2: EPISODE 10
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Navigating your career takes more than just doing great work — it takes courage, strategy
In this episode of the Merging Into Life podcast, host Sabrina Pierotti is joined by career coach and author Sam DeMase, whose advice has helped thousands of professionals land jobs, build workplace boundaries and master advocating for themselves at work without succumbing to career burnout.
Whether you’re looking for job interview tips or salary negotiation strategies for that long-overdue promotion, this episode offers actionable advice to help you overcome imposter syndrome, own your voice and take up space without second-guessing yourself.
[00:00:01] Sabrina Pierotti: So, when I started my first corporate job out of college, there were so many things that I wish people told me before I started, my first day. But perhaps one of the biggest things that I wished somebody told me was don’t be so quick to prove yourself. Let other people shine, let other people have their moment, and all you need to do, Sabrina, is be a sponge and just, like, soak up as much as you can. Because I came from college where I was a straight-A student, so I was really great at school, and corporate life and the workforce is drastically different than school. People told me when I started my job, they were like, you know what, it takes a full year for you to really feel comfortable in your job and for things to start clicking. So that high achiever part of me was like, a year? Please, I’m going to show you that I can do this in three months. But they were spot on. So, I wish somebody said, think of your job in the long term. Think of your career as a long game instead of trying to claw your way to the top within the first year. This is your lifelong career. Hey guys, welcome back to Merging Into Life. I’m your host, Sabrina Pierotti, and I’m going to be your guide for the Everyday Mastery Series. So our first topic today is one that hits close to home for a lot of us. I know it hits close to home to me, which is career confidence. Whether you’re interviewing for your first role, and if you are, congrats. Whether you’re negotiating a raise or just trying to set boundaries in a new job, speaking up can feel intimidating, especially in environments that don’t always make space for you. Luckily, our guest today is Sam DeMase, a career confidence coach and the author of “Power Mood.” Sam’s helped thousands of professionals find their voice, advocate for themselves and build careers they actually feel good about. Hi Sam, so good to see you.
[00:02:03] Sam DeMase: Hi Sabrina, thank you for having me.
[00:02:06] Sabrina Pierotti: It’s so funny. I wish I knew you and we talked like 10 years ago, before I entered the workforce, like post college, because girl, trust me when I say, it was like a rude awakening for me, like entering the workforce after college. So, I’m so excited that we’re having this conversation. So, I want to start off by getting to know a little bit about you. What led you to doing the work that you do today?
[00:02:33] Sam DeMase: That’s a great question. And to your earlier point, I agree with you. I wish I had had some really direct, actionable advice when I was younger. So, I think that’s one of the things that motivated me to do this work. But in my corporate life, which I spent 13 years in human resources, leadership development, people-centric roles, working mostly in male-dominated industries, I really learned by doing how to advocate for myself every step of the way. There were a lot of doors I had to kick down to get promotions that I thought I really deserved. I sometimes will refer to myself as a corporate troublemaker. I broke some of the rules, challenged certain corporate policies, and as I was doing that, I realized, OK, there are some really actionable tips here that I could be giving other people to hack the system and get what they’re worth.
[00:03:27] Sabrina Pierotti: And a big part of what you talk about is having what you call career confidence. From my own experience, I want to talk about imposter syndrome. What is your advice for imposter syndrome?
[00:03:40] Sam DeMase: I would say the No. 1 thing to remember is imposter syndrome is a universal experience. So, at any given moment when you’re experiencing that, someone else who you perceive as more qualified, better, they’re experiencing it as well. It is a universal experience, and I like to always remind people where imposter syndrome comes from, right? So, it doesn’t necessarily come from an inability that you have, a failure. It comes from broader society telling you, maybe, that you can’t perform something or you can achieve something. But when you do experience it, I think there’s some practical things to get in the mindset of doing. And No. 1 is evidence. Is there evidence that I can’t do this, or do I just need to sit down and try? A lot of times, there’s no evidence to back up your imposter syndrome. It’s like, I can’t do this. I shouldn’t do that. And then also looking back at your brag sheet of previous successes. If you don’t have a brag sheet, whether you’re new, whether you’re into your career by a decade, I always recommend having a brag sheet where you can write down your accomplishments and look back on it. When I’m having a tough imposter syndrome day, I always look back at my brag sheet and remember my wins, small, medium and big, that will remind you who you are and what you’ve done and what have achieved. So, you always have to have a brag to look back at it will boost your confidence and help you conquer those tough moments.
[00:05:03] Sabrina Pierotti: I love that. And now I want to go into the actual interview process, like, getting your foot in the door, which is a whole task in itself. There’s the job, but then there’s also getting the job. And I want kind of address the elephant in the room, which is AI. That is a part of every aspect of our life. It’s not going away. And, of course, now, it’s a part of the recruiting process. So, from what I understand, and correct me if I’m wrong, Sam, but before your resume gets into a human recruiter’s hands, an AI bot literally scans your resumes. So, there is a high likely chance that your resume, no matter how hard you worked on it, is not going to get in front of the eyes of a human person.
[00:05:50] Sam DeMase: Yeah, this is such a timely question, such an important topic, and I talk about this a lot in my work. You got to make AI your ally at this point. This whole rise of AI reminds me a lot of the early days of the internet. When the internet was first coming to be and people were scared, we had the whole Y2K scare, people were afraid, is this going to take away jobs? Is this going impact my livelihood? Does this mean I don’t have privacy? I think it’s about leaning in, not being afraid and using it responsibly and using it as your ally, because to your point, if employers are going to be using it to screen us, we need to be using it as well to our advantage in the process. And there are really good ways to do that. So, you mentioned, like, the bot that scans mid-size and large companies use to filter through resumes to look for certain keywords. And there are ways you can proactively make sure your resume is going to make it past that screen and get to a human. And we do that through tailoring. So, when you take a look at a job description, you take a look at your resume, one way you can use AI to make sure you’re properly tailored is go into your favorite AI, copy and paste the job description. Copy and paste your resume, and enter a prompt, something along the lines of, can you tell me what my gaps are between this job description and my resume? What experience, keywords, skills, certifications, or education gaps do I have? AI will tell you, be direct, and will say that these are your gaps. Obviously, double check it. AI is your thought partner, not your final answer. It will also reveal if you’re applying for the right jobs, if your prompt reveals all these gaps, you’re probably applying for the wrong jobs. So, take that into account, but it will help you see any gap areas you have where you can then go back in your experience and fill those in.
[00:07:36] Sabrina Pierotti: So, say that you just kill the resume, and they’re like, we need to meet this person. And I’m literally like getting sweaty palms just thinking about it. How do you approach an interview?
[00:07:50] Sam DeMase: It’s about preparation. Like 99% of your interview success is in the prep. I recommend the WAT method, W-A-T. It stands for what you do, achievement, and tie in. And for me, I’m somebody who used to be a recruiter, used to be a hiring manager, I know what they’re looking for. They are not looking for you to tell your whole life story. They are not looking for you to walk through your entire resume, which is what a lot of candidates do, because of nervousness, that we start to ramble. It needs to be concise. It needs to be a powerful short story. So, you’re going to quickly say what you do, how many years of experience you have, your top achievement from your last position that’s related to the role you’re trying to get, and then, tie it all back. So, for example, you could say something like, yeah, absolutely, here’s a little bit about me. I’m a training and development manager. I have 10-plus years of experience in building curriculum, teaching live classes and elevating culture and people operations at mid-size organizations. In my last role, I increased training completions by 40 percent in the first six months. And I know in this role, you’re looking for somebody who can do that. So, I’m really excited to bring my expertise to this position. And you pivoted right back to talking about the role, and then you set them up to ask you your first interview question. So, it really is about an elevator pitch, and it makes you appear super confident. It makes you a peer really, really connected to your superpowers. And it makes the interviewer really excited to engage with you. So, I recommend using that method to kick off your interview on a really, really positive note.
[00:09:19] Sabrina Pierotti: I want to talk about signs in an interview. Because as much as the company is interviewing you, you also are interviewing the company. And this is something that I wish I really understood or took to heart when I was interviewing for jobs, but I get it. Like, when you are trying to find a job, you’re desperate. You just want a job and a paycheck. So, I 1,000% understand that. But at the end of the day, you are going to be spending more time with your co-workers than you are your dog or your spouse. You’re going to be spending so much time at this company.
[00:09:55] Sam DeMase: So, if you are going through the interview process, starting from the recruiter to the hiring manager, to the panel, to the peer interview, to the executive leadership round, because these days there’s usually four or five or six rounds, is their disinterest, disengagement a pattern? Do you notice this across the team, or was it just one-off from one person? Disorganization, if that’s a pattern across the organization: in the emails you’re getting from them, they’re canceling interviews, they’re rescheduling on you, they’re consistently showing up unprepared or looking at their phone or disengaged. That is a huge red flag, is the pattern of that. Now, if it’s a one-off one person, it’s little hard to say. But if you think about it in concert with all the things I’m going to talk about, it all adds up. So, pattern is one. Another one is how do they respond to your intentional questions? So, if you miss an opportunity to ask them intentional questions, you’re not doing your due diligence of making this a conversation and investigating what they’re about. So, I always recommend asking the hiring manager really smart, pointed, curious questions because this does two things. It shows that you’re a curious and interested candidate who is ready to tackle this role tomorrow. So, it shows them that you are ready. And two, it gives you valuable essential information as to whether or not you want this job. So, I also ask in an interview, can you share an example of how work-life balance manifests on this team? What does that look like in practice? I always ask, can you share an example of someone you developed and promoted on this team? What did their path look like? Because I care about upward mobility. I will always ask, can you show an example of how you have evolved as a person since starting here? Questions about the things that matter to you in a workplace culture. Ask those questions, get those answers, and see if you’re aligned. And then the last piece is your intuition. If your intuition is screaming at you that this is a bad idea, you didn’t connect with those people, you felt put on the spot. Also think if an interview feels like an interrogation, that is a huge red flag. Interviews are a conversation, not an interrogate, I always say. So, if you feel like you were sitting back and they were just firing questions at you, definite red flag, listen to your intuition. So, between those three things, the pattern, is this a pattern? How did they respond to my pointed curious questions and my intuition? Those three things will help you figure out is this opportunity right for me.
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[00:12:13] Sabrina Pierotti: OK, so we crush the interview, we like the company, we feel good, we get the job, and we’re like driving up to the office. They’re going to want to prove themselves from Day 1. And that’s also something I wish I told myself back in the day was, don’t try to prove yourself from Day 1. Sit back for a while, let other people shine around you and learn and absorb and like, you’re going to have your moment. What is your advice for setting healthy boundaries at the end of the day?
[00:13:18] Sam DeMase: This is such an important topic, and I feel like sometimes people who are young in their careers think that boundary setting is off the table for them. However, it is not the case, especially in today’s workplace. Boundary setting is accepted. However, the burden is on us as the employee to set those boundaries, and that is the most important piece of this conversation. Your employer will never offer a boundary. You have to be the one to bring that to the table. Your employer will push the envelope and push you and push you until you burn out, until you hit a stopping point. That is, unfortunately, the reality. It’s actually great to do it when you are new, because it’s harder to establish boundaries once you’ve gotten into a different dynamic with your manager. It’s then hard to then go back and reset those. So, I actually recommend setting them from the jump early on. When you first start a job, I always recommend walking in knowing what your boundaries are. So, first step is write down what your boundaries are. Do you know your own boundaries? When I first started my first job, I had no idea. I’m not comfortable receiving emails at 8 p.m. and thinking that I need to respond to those. There were certain things that would come up, and I would realize, maybe this is a boundary. So, as soon as I figured out what my boundaries were, I codified them, wrote them down, and then I was able to start communicating with my manager about what those are. For example, I had somebody set up a meeting with me at 6:30 p.m., and I just responded and said, hey, I’m wrapping my day at 6, but here are some other alternative time slots that I can meet, and they easily just changed it to another time. So, be solution-oriented, set your boundary, be firm, and just be clear about it. That comes to workload as well. If you are maxed out on workload, you need to tell your manager: hey, I’m currently maxed out with projects A, B and C. Can you help me re-prioritize some of this if you’d like me to take on project D as well? You have to be very vocal and very clear. If you stay silent, they’re going to just assume you can do more and more and more and more. So, you do have to be the one who owns that.
[00:15:27] Sabrina Pierotti: Now, what would you say to somebody who has been at a company for a couple years, feels like they’ve really made an impact, and they want either a promotion or a raise? Like, how does somebody prepare for a very intimidating conversation like that?
[00:15:42] Sam DeMase: Advocating for yourself, getting that raise, there is a system to it. There is a method to the madness, which is, I feel, not spoken about as much. I didn’t know about this until I was mid-career, but in order to ask for a raise and a promotion, you need to write a business case. We call it an HR behind the scenes. A business case is a three-step process, one is your role-related achievements. So go back and look at your job description line by line and write down what you’ve achieved in each category, how you’ve responded to your goals, how you made progress on things that you’ve done since the beginning of the role versus now. So, yeah, all your achievements that are related to the role is No. 1. The second piece of your business case is ways that you are working beyond the scope of your current job. Which, if you’re ready to get promoted and you feel like now’s the time, you’re definitely doing things that are not on your job description. So, go ahead and list all of those things out. That’s part 2. And then part 3 of your business case is feedback from colleagues, leaders, vendors, clients, collect all of that. And again, I recommend putting that on your brag sheet throughout the year, so that way, when it does come time to advocate for yourself for a raise, promotion, performance review, discussion, whatever it may be, you have all of your evidence, you have all your wins. There’s nothing like showing up to advocate for yourself with a whole rock-solid case. It’s harder to show up and just say, I believe I deserve a reason of promotion because so-and-so has it and I work harder. That is never going to work. At the end of the day with your boss, because your boss needs to have evidence to advocate you. And when you are done presenting your business case to your boss, my favorite line to use is, will you advocate for me to make this happen? Will you advocate for me to make this promotion and raise happen? Because that shows your boss immediately that you’re on the same team. This isn’t about you trying to take their position. You are not a threat to them. You and your boss are on the same team, and you’re putting them in a position to advocate for you. So, you say to them, will you advocate for me to make this happen? Their response to that is very telling. And it is just for me the perfect way to end that conversation and to bring it from, all right, I presented my case. Now the ball is in their court. Where is this going to go from here?
[00:17:55] Sabrina Pierotti: I love it, that’s why you’re great at what you do, honestly, and I needed that 10-plus years ago, I still need that. I love that, that’s awesome. What if we do ask for something huge and somebody says no, like rejection sucks. Nobody likes feeling whether you don’t get that job you interviewed for, or you asked for that raise, or that extra money on a contract, and they said no, where do you go from there?
[00:18:22] Sam DeMase: It’s hard, and it’s important to acknowledge that it is hard, and rejection can feel like a setback, but I always say rejection is protection. Whatever you’ve been rejected from, there’s a reason. This rejection protected you from something. Maybe it was going to be a toxic opportunity. Maybe it’s going to lead to burnout. We all go through that. It is a universal experience with rejection. So, I recommend talking about it. Have a vent. Vent to your therapist, to your best friend, to a co-worker you trust, you know, you can have a vent conversation about it. Rejection loses its power when we talk about it, just like imposter syndrome. You have to name it to tame it. So, once you’ve named it and said, I’ve been rejected. This is what happened. It will lose its power.
[00:19:06] Sabrina Pierotti: So, before we wrap up, I just want to talk about myths. So, what is a workplace myth or rule at any part of the process? Interview, once you’re in the job, that just needs to go away. It shouldn’t be there.
[00:19:23] Sam DeMase: This is a great topic of discussion. I would say, one that needs to die is put your head down and work hard, and you’ll get rewarded. That is no longer the case. Put your head down and work hard. My parents told me this. Yeah, just put your head down, work hard, you’ll get recognized. That did not work. I tried that in the beginning of my career, and all that did was lead me to burnout, frustration, anger, jealousy. It leads to a lot of hard things. So, instead of putting your head down and working hard silently, do the opposite. Advocate for yourself, be loud about your achievements, vocalize your wins. It’s going to feel weird at first, and then it’s not. It will be hard at first. But there’s small ways you can celebrate your wins, like for example, anytime I got positive feedback at work, I would just forward the email to my boss and be like, hey, this made me smile today, check out this win. That’s a great way to start that pattern of self-advocacy and to highlight that your work is impactful. If you don’t do that, your manager has no idea. Your manager’s going to have no clue. They’re wrapped up in their own world, No. 1. They are busy, and they’re not going to know what your impact is unless you tell them. So, it’s really important to start doing that in small ways like that.
[00:20:38] Sabrina Pierotti: This was awesome, Sam. People listening just need more of Sam and have questions for you or need your help interviewing for their next job. Whatever it may be, they want to get in touch with you. How can they do that?
[00:20:52] Sam DeMase: Absolutely, I would love to stay in touch. You can find me on Instagram @apowermood, or at APowerMood.com, where you can sign up for my free newsletter, or you can buy my book, “Power Mood,” and learn how to advocate for yourself every step of the way in your workplace journey.
[00:21:07] Sabrina Pierotti: Thank you so much. I hope people listening who are either going through a challenge at work or interviewing for a new job, I hope that this just gave them that breath of relief that they were looking for. So, thank you so for your time. It was awesome chatting with you.
[00:21:24] Sam DeMase: Thank you so much for having me.
[00:21:28] Sabrina Pierotti: What an awesome episode, thank you so much, Sam, for joining me in this conversation today. I really appreciated the reminder that confidence is a choice, that we have to make every single day, whether it is setting boundaries, advocating for ourselves or just asking for help when we need it. So, if this episode resonated with you, please be sure to follow, rate and review Merging Into Life wherever you’re listening. It really helps us reach more people and keep these conversations going. So, thank you so much for listening, and we’ll see you next time on Merging Into Life.
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Maybe the best part about the holidays — besides spending time with family, of course — is the food. But sometimes, getting your favorite annual dish from your home to the gathering can be a bit of a balancing act. Literally.
While you could chance it, transporting certain foods can get messy fast, adding stress to what is supposed to be a cheerful day. Avoid losing a battle to gravity with these delicious and portable foods to bring to your holiday get together.
It’s safe to say that soup is out as a traveling appetizer option due to its propensity to spill — unless you have a slow cooker with a locking lid (but even then, be wary). There are still plenty of starters that’ll stay stable on the way to your destination.
Every table needs bread, and freshly baked rolls are easy to make, shareable and a breeze to transport right in the pan you made them in with a stretch lid on top.
Dip is also a great appetizer that’s easy to take with you, and the options are pretty much endless. There’s spinach and artichoke dip, jalapeno popper dip, caprese dip, buffalo chicken dip and so many more. To make your dip easier to transport, you could choose to make it in a disposable foil pan, so you don’t have to worry about getting your baking dish back at the end of the night. (Even better: choose one that comes with a lid.)
Some sort of puff pastry appetizer, like apricot and gruyere cheese puffs from Cooking in my Genes, is an easily portable food that can be placed into a large food storage container with a secure lid and taken on the road.
If you’re contributing a main course to the meal, leave anything elaborate to the host and opt for something that’s sturdy (won’t spill) but not super heavy (and therefore cumbersome to maneuver.) Think casseroles, potatoes, macaroni and cheese and gratins — all of which can be made ahead of time in their transport dish or foil pans and then topped securely with plastic wrap and aluminum foil for safe arrival at your destination.
Duchess potatoes are a fresh spin on mashed potatoes with their beautiful rosette presentation, and because they’re baked into shape, they should be a cinch to transport. As far as casseroles, any kind can work as long as it’s fully cooled before you get on the road. This sweet potato casserole from Spend With Pennies has over 2,000 five-star reviews and takes only 45 minutes to assemble and bake. If you’re a one-bowl recipe type of person, this cornbread casserole has your name on it.
For baked mac and cheese, try this recipe from Mom On Timeout, which uses three types of cheese and is finished with a top layer of crispy breadcrumbs.
There’s always room for dessert in our bellies, but maybe not in our vehicles. Try to veer away from anything tall, like cookie towers or multilayered cakes as they can be tricky to transport without damage. Cookies not assembled high and single-layer cakes are fine, as they can be packaged securely with either a zip-close bag or a snap-lock cake carrier, respectively.
Pies are OK — but not any pie. As with the casseroles, make sure the pie is fully baked and sturdy. A pie that’s underbaked or has a liquid texture is going to be a nightmare to transport, so choose something like a pecan pie or crumb cake over chocolate cream pie or other cream-topped varieties.
Cheesecake is a perfect middle ground as it tends to hold its shape quite well, once it’s cooled. Keeping any cheesecake in its springform pan with a tight covering over the top is a great way to safely transport and provides an easy reveal come dessert time.
If you’ve been tasked with being this year’s mixologist, don’t fret about lugging all the beverage ingredients separately. You can assemble any drinks ahead of time by multiplying the ingredients by how many people will be at the function so that you have it properly proportioned. Add everything to a sealable container (even a soda bottle would do) and gently swirl to mix. This way, once you get there, all you have to do is pour each individual cocktail or mocktail instead of mixing each drink one by one. Saving time, for the win.
PS: If you or your guests plan to imbibe, make sure everyone has a safe ride home.
Have you ever wanted to take a magical ride on the Polar Express? In the Northeast, you can! Many vintage railroads in the region are now scenic railways. And there’s nothing better than taking a holiday ride on a snowy evening. Here are some of the best winter and holiday train rides near you.
The Adirondack Railroad brings the Polar Express train ride to New York. The popular holiday story comes to life, with cocoa, cookies, a narrated story time, carols and even a visit from Santa himself. Don’t forget to wear your pajamas! You can catch the two-hour nonstop train at Utica’s Union Station. Runs through Dec. 21.
The Blackstone Valley Polar Express Train Ride is the hottest golden ticket in town. It’s almost sold out for 2025, but you may want to add it to your list of things to do next Christmas!
Experience the magic of “The Polar Express” in author Chris Van Allsburg’s home state of Rhode Island. The 90-minute, round-trip train ride departs from the historic Blackstone Valley station in Woonsocket and is filled with singing, games, hot chocolate and a reading of the book, topped off with a visit from Santa. Before getting on the train, a stage show, photos with characters and more kick off the fun.
You can also board Cape Cod Central Railroad’s Polar Express train ride, running along the shoreline of Massachusetts. Passengers will receive punched golden tickets, enjoy dancing waiters, hear the story that inspired the ride and meet Santa and his elves. It’s a 90-minute round trip from the Buzzards Bay train depot in Bourne, Mass. Select nights through Dec. 23.
If you’re feeling jolly, make sure to catch Santa’s Holiday Express on the Conway Scenic Railroad, weekends, ending Dec. 21. The holiday-themed journey takes guests on a 90-minute round trip to meet Santa in the village of North Conway, and each child receives their own cookies and milk.
Conway Scenic Railroad also offers the Winter Mountaineer, a train ride over New Hampshire’s scenic Crawford Notch. Get breathtaking views of the White Mountains from a classic midcentury train. This train runs on select dates from Nov. 28 to Feb. 22.
Essex Steam Train’s annual North Pole Express is one of the most sought-after holiday train rides in New England. On this train ride, you can along with special guests like Santa and Mrs. Claus. Get ready for festive sing-alongs, hot chocolate, sugar cookies and a special gift from the big man himself.
Grown-ups can enjoy Essex Steam Train’s New Years Eve party. It’s a 40s, Casablanca-themed soiree, so sip cocktails on vintage train cars, enjoy a sumptuous dinner, try your hand at some classic casino games and dance to the tune of a live jazz band.
Set in the picturesque Pennsylvania town of Jim Thorpe, the Lehigh Gorge Scenic Railway weaves through the Pocono Mountains, offering unforgettable views and live narration. During the Christmas season, you can catch the Santa Claus Special Train all the way up to Christmas Eve. During the 70-minute round trip, Santa meets with everyone aboard and takes in the views with you.
The Maine Narrow Gauge Railroad’s Polar Express train ride will take you straight to the North Pole (well, technically, a 50-minute round trip from Portland’s Ocean Gateway Marine Terminal), in luxuriously decorated Christmas train cars. Passengers will meet the conductor, an assortment of hot cocoa-bearing magical chefs and Santa Claus himself.
Hop aboard the very first mountain-climbing cog train in the world to enjoy New Hampshire’s winter wonderland. Mount Washington is the highest peak in New England, and the Mount Washington Cog Railway comes in at the second-steepest set of train tracks in the world.
The winter trains on the mountain continue running all season long. Trains can climb up to Waumbek Station, or even as high as the Skyline, for breathtaking panoramic views. Passengers can also enjoy complimentary hot drinks, a fire pit and even warming huts.
Santa is coming to Allaire State Park! The New Jersey Museum of Transportation’s Santa Express has been running during the holiday season for more than 40 years, and it’s not stopping anytime soon. Santa Claus will board the Christmas Express and talk to every child on board while you chug along through a winter wonderland. Catch the train on select nights through Dec. 21.
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Have you ever been on a holiday train ride, or dreamed of boarding the Polar Express? What holiday tradition do you do with your family every year? Let us know in the comments below.
This article has been updated and republished from a previous version.
Lower production, higher exports and steady demand have steadily taken a bite out of national gasoline stockpiles. The Energy Information Administration (EIA) last week reported a fifth-straight week of declines in gasoline supplies, which fell by 4.7 million barrels to 206 million barrels. That’s 5 million fewer than last year and 9 million less than the five-year average.
While demand fell slightly from the prior week, the EIA’s figure of 8.87 million barrels a day is still relatively robust for this time of year. At the same time, gasoline production eased to 9.42 million barrels a day, down from 9.65 million barrels a day the previous week, while exports climbed from 859,000 to 1.08 million barrels a day.
“Shrinking gasoline inventories have put some pressure on pump prices, ending the recent streak of price declines seen throughout the Northeast this fall,” said Mark Schieldrop, senior spokesperson for AAA Northeast. “Supply and demand shifts will dictate how much prices shift—and in what direction—in the coming weeks.”
| Region | Current Price* | One Week Ago | One Month Ago | One Year Ago |
| Massachusetts | $3.00 | $2.98 | $3.05 | $3.03 |
| Rhode Island | $2.95 | $2.92 | $3.00 | $2.95 |
| Connecticut | $3.05 | $3.03 | $3.10 | $3.04 |
| New York | $3.12 | $3.10 | $3.16 | $3.17 |
| New Jersey | $2.98 | $2.96 | $3.02 | $2.91 |
*Prices as of Nov. 10, 2025
Today, Oklahoma and Mississippi have the lowest prices in the nation at $2.56 and $2.59, respectively. California and Hawaii hold the highest prices in the nation this week at $4.71 and $4.46 respectively.
The AAA Gas Prices website is your resource for up-to-date fuel price information. Search for average gas prices on national, state and metro levels by regular, plus, premium and diesel.
Life insurance is one of the most misunderstood forms of insurance coverage. How it works, why it’s necessary and what defines quality coverage are all common questions. And for younger generations struggling with debt, life insurance is simply not on top of the priority list. But when it comes to purchasing life insurance, the sooner the better. Don’t miss out on the opportunity to build a formidable financial support system.
Reach out to an insurance agent to discuss your options.
Contrary to popular belief, you don’t have to be middle-aged or even have started a family for life insurance to be a worthwhile contribution. In fact, establishing a life insurance policy early on could be a smart way to set the tone for your financial future.
For young adults just starting to build their finances, such a policy could be the safety net that makes all the difference. This age group typically has yet to amass significant savings or a retirement plan and life insurance could ensure that a future spouse or children are provided for under any circumstances.
Even if you don’t have anyone depending on you just yet, you’ll be thankful to have gotten a jump on investing in your family’s future early on. It’ll put you that much closer to your financial goals later in life.
One of the clearest reasons why you shouldn’t wait to start a life insurance plan is because of how affordable rates are for young adults. A policy’s cost is affected by a wide range of factors, but your age and general well-being are chief among them. So, beginning a policy when you’re young and healthy means rates are likely as low as they’ll ever be.
In some cases, a life insurance policy could be as inexpensive as just a few dollars each week, and it may be wise to begin injecting some funds into your plan even before you begin having children or purchasing a home. The more expenses you take on, the less available money you will logically be able to apply to your policy.
Anticipation is key when it comes to insurance – protecting against an uncertain future is its very nature — so the time is now to set aside your misconceptions and start planning ahead, especially while you can still take advantage of incredibly low rates.

Just as the rates for life insurance vary based on your specific situation, you may be relieved to know that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to the kind of policy you can acquire. How much you contribute and how much coverage you attain are up to you. You can customize your policy to your budget and your lifestyle.
Feel free to take on a more ambitious premium. However, if you don’t have the means, it is better to have a modest plan than none at all.
Take it slow with a term life insurance plan and amp it up once you’re comfortable. Just be sure to leave the option open to convert your policy into whole life insurance, which offers an entirely different set of benefits.
At its core, the concept of life insurance may feel a bit morbid. After all, its key benefits kick in once the insured individual passes away — but there are living benefits available, as well. In the case of an accelerated death benefit, if the insured is diagnosed with a terminal illness, they may receive up to half of their death benefit tax-free to help cover or defray medical or other associated costs. Another benefit is a return of premium that ensures a tax-free refund of any premium payments at the end of the policy.
The benefit to the surviving loved ones is undeniable. With a life insurance policy in your back pocket, you’ll be able to rest easy knowing that the people who matter most will be protected if disaster strikes.
Whether you already have dependents or not, it’s never too early to begin paying into your life insurance plan. No one can predict the future, and you never know when tragedy may occur. However, once you take precautions, you’ll be better equipped to set those worries aside and focus on enjoying life.
More than laying the groundwork for your financial future, your life insurance plan puts in place a support system that will provide for your family long after you’re gone. That’s a peace of mind that cannot be effectively quantified, no matter what your premium is.
This article has been updated and republished from a previous version.
Pump prices across the region are little changed from last week as oil prices hold steady in the $59 to $64 a barrel range and domestic inventories of gasoline tighten on higher demand and a widening import and export imbalance.
The Energy Information Administration (EIA) last week reported a 470,000 barrel a day jump in gasoline demand, rising to a solid 8.9 million barrels a day. While strong for a late October week, the figure landed 230,000 barrels a day lower than the comparable week last year.
Gasoline exports, on the other hand, fell last week by 363,000 barrels a day to 849,000 barrels a day, according to the EIA, but imports fell as well. All told, 2.7 million more barrels of gasoline left United States than came in last week, which contributed to a sizable 5.9 million barrels decline in inventories, which are now 3% below the 5-year average for the season.
“Along with tightening supplies, petroleum prices gained momentum last week after reports of a temporary trade agreement between the United States and China, which could spur economic activity – and demand for oil and gas,” said Mark Schieldrop, senior spokesperson for AAA Northeast. “Pump prices could stabilize in the short term if inventories stay below seasonal averages.”
AAA Northeast’s Nov. 6 survey of fuel prices found the current national average up 5 cents from last week ($3.03), averaging $3.08 per gallon. Today’s national average price is 5 cents lower than a month ago ($3.13) and 2 cents lower than this day last year ($3.10).
| Region | Current Price* | One Week Ago | One Month Ago | One Year Ago |
| Massachusetts | $2.99 | $2.99 | $3.06 | $3.04 |
| Rhode Island | $2.93 | $2.91 | $3.03 | $2.95 |
| Connecticut | $3.05 | $3.03 | $3.11 | $3.05 |
| New York | $3,11 | $3.10 | $3.17 | $3.18 |
| New Jersey | $2.97 | $2.94 | $3.04 | $2.92 |
*Prices as of Nov. 6, 2025
Today, Oklahoma and Texas have the lowest prices in the nation at $2.54 and $2.55, respectively. California and Hawaii hold the highest prices in the nation this week at $4.65 and $4.47 respectively. Massachusetts holds the 18st place on the list of highest gas prices in the nation.
The AAA Gas Prices website is your resource for up-to-date fuel price information. Search for average gas prices on national, state and metro levels by regular, plus, premium and diesel.